First of all, I know that this day has taken on new meaning in our culture mostly because of business and marketing. How completely wrong that there are people who will feel sad and less valued because they didn’t get a bouquet of roses or some candy or a card (from someone who felt obligated to do it whether they wanted to or not…).
Although both of you lovely women might get a gift or two, you both also feel a lack in your life when it comes to the relationships our society idolizes. I want you to be able to see through the hype thrown at you, that sneaks in and lingers in the shadows in your mind – that voice that says…
you are less,
you are flawed,
you are boring,
you are not ready,
you are never,
you are not…
In reality you are beautiful young women who are brave enough to be alone if need be. You are proving it by being alone now. If you were less strong, less committed to your ideals, less in tune with who God made you to be, you could be in a so called “relationship” even now. But getting a gift on February 14th doesn’t necessarily mean you are truly loved with constancy, faithfulness, sacrifice, and without conditions. No love on earth gives you that line up.
Meanwhile you have a treasure trove of people who love and value you for who you have been, who you are now and who you will be. Even more important you have a Creator who knows you better than all these others and who knows the shortest route to your ultimate happiness. Hard to believe at times? Yes. But you are on that route – it’s called life in Christ. It’s marked by lessons in trust that are often hard and seem never to have an end. But you will be taken care of in difficulty and you will benefit from each and every hard thing and they will create an even more beautiful you. It happens faster when you realize that’s the purpose and get to that place of gratitude.
Happy Valentine’s Day daughters, and remember…
You are more than you sometimes feel you are.
You are on your way to perfection.
You are fascinating.
You are ready for whatever is next, with God’s help.
You are always in His view and his planning.
You are a daughter of someone called The Eternal “I Am”.